You can use a robots.txt file to direct search engine spiders on what to and not to look at. Most main stream spiders will adhear... spam bots probably wont. Here's a link:
http://www.searchengineworld.com/robots/robots_tutorial.htmUse of meta tags in pages to direct bots is also possible:
META Name: "Robots"
Supported Types: noindex | index | nofollow | follow
General Usage: <META name="Robots" content="index,follow">
If you don't want the page indexed and the links not followed use "noindex,nofollow"
You can prevent users from copying and pasting with java script using a "no right click" script. Also, I believe there are some meta tags that prevent highlighting also... but this may be for IE only and may or may not exists... lol I read to much and tend to forget things... lol
For javascripts have a look here:
http://javascript.internet.com/Hope this helps.